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"Grief is like manure; if you spread it out it fertilises. If you leave it in a big pile, it smells like hell."
Thomas Golden
Here is a book full of practical ideas to help you or somebody you know move through grief.
Honour Book
Eve Pownall Award for Information Books, 2005 Children’s Book Council of Australia Awards
A unique and compassionate guide, which gives people struggling with grief and loss the tools they need. Above all, Elizabeth Vercoe and Kerry Abramowski let young people know that even in their darkest hour they are not alone.
— Dr Michael Carr-Gregg
Straightforward, conversational... thoughtful and down-to-earth...
— Magpies
Honest and respectful... In 55 intimate chapters, she addresses just about everything a young person might need to know to help them through the darkest night. ‘You can deal with grief in your own way,’ she writes. ‘What happens next is up to you.’ Both radical and liberating, Vercoe shines a bright light.
— The Age
This unique guide has a place in every school library
— The Age Education Unit